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(This blog was originally posted on
April 4, 2016)
When it comes to relationships, Physical
Sexual and Emotional Sexual partners have very different needs and desires.
A Physical Sexual controls the Emotional Sexual partner with guilt.
Relationships are very important to this personality, and if the relationship
ever seems to be in jeopardy the Physical Sexual will do just about anything to
rescue and preserve the relationship.
Whereas the Physical Sexual experiences very little guilt, the Emotional
Sexual partner is laden with it, observed Hypnosis
Motivation Institute founder Dr. John
Kappas. Therefore, to maintain control in the relationship, the Physical
Sexual partner must never release
that hold until the person gets what he or she wants, he advised. The Physical
Sexual is also easily hurt, such as in instances of betrayal, and can be
vindictive. “They really hold onto that hurt,” he said.
Conversely, the Emotional Sexual controls a Physical Sexual partner by
rejection or withholding emotion. The Emotional Sexual tends to be defensive
and protective, and generally has difficulty expressing his or her true
feelings, Dr. Kappas explained. Furthermore, the Emotional Sexual also gets
over failed relationships fairly quickly. This personality tends to need more
spare and does not place as high a priority on relationships as the Physical
Sexual tends to do. The more the Emotional Sexual withdraws to create more
space for him- or herself in the relationship, the more desperate the Physical
becomes to reconnect. Paradoxically, this behavior only irritates the Emotional
Sexual partner, and he or she tends to withdraw from the partner even more.
Sex is another area where the Emotional and Physical partners tend to
try to control each other, the hypnotherapist pointed out. Both male and female
Physical Sexual partners crave closeness after intercourse, but an Emotional
Sexual male wants to get his orgasm over with and move on to something else.
Whereas a Physical Sexual female wants her partner to “prove” that he cares
about her through intimacy, a Physical Sexual male can control his partner
through his release (ejaculation), Dr. Kappas said. Finally, the Emotional
Sexual female wants to figure out how to manipulate or control her Physically
Sexual male partner.
“It’s a lot easier for a hypnotherapist to work with couples where
there’s an Emotional Sexual female and a Physical Sexual male, because it’s
easier to ‘mold’ the Emotional Sexual female than it is to mold the Emotional
Sexual male. Plus, she suffers a lot of guilt,” Dr. Kappas said.
For more information about how to address the Emotional Sexual and
Physical Sexual personalities’ response to rejection, I invite you to check out
my blog titled, Dealing
With Rejection in Hypnotherapy.
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Hi, there. I am Tom Neil and I want to explain how life had been for my younger brother living with schizophrenia and how he had been permanently able to overcome this debilitating disease via a naturopathic, herbal method.
ReplyDeleteMaicon - my kid brother was twenty years old when he was brought to the emergency room by the campus police of the college from which he had been suspended several months ago. A professor had called and reported that he had walked into his classroom, accused him of taking his tuition money, and refused to leave.
Although he had much academic success as a teenager, his behavior had become increasingly odd during the past year. He quit seeing his friends and no longer seemed to care about his appearance or social pursuits. He began wearing the same clothes each day and seldom bathed. He lived with several family members but rarely spoke to any of them. When he did talk to them, he said he had found clues that his college was just a front for an organized crime operation. He had been suspended from college because of missing many classes. My sister said that she had often seen him mumbling quietly to himself and at times he seemed to be talking to people who were not there. He would emerge from my room and ask my family to be quiet even when they were not making any noise.
My father and sister told the staff that Maicon's great-grandmother had had a serious illness and had lived for 30 years in a state hospital, which they believed was a mental hospital. Our mother left the family when Maicon was very young. She has been out of touch with us, and they thought she might have been treated for mental health problems.
Maicon agreed to sign himself into the psychiatric unit for treatment. The whole family except I had agreed to have Maicon transferred to a mental asylum. I knew inwardly there was still some plausible means by which my kid brother could overcome this condition. I knew botanical means of treatment will be more favorable than any other type of treatment, and as such, I had taken a keen interest in the research of naturopathic alternative measures suitable for the treatment of schizophrenia. I had pleaded for some little patience from the family in the delay of the transfer, I was looking forward to proving a point to the entire family, of a positive botanical remedy for this condition.
It was during my ceaseless search on the internet I had been fortunate enough to come across Dr. Utu Herbal Cure: an African herbalist and witch doctor whose professional works had majored on the eradication of certain viral conditions, especially schizophrenia, ( improving the memory capacity positively), via a traditional, naturopathic process and distinguished diet plan. It was by the administration of this herbal specialist that my brother had been able to improve his condition for better.
Before the naturopathic remedy - Maicon's story had reflected a common case, in which a high-functioning young adult goes through a major decline in day-to-day skills. Although family and friends may feel this is a loss of the person they knew, the illness can be treated and a good outcome is possible.
My brother Maicon is just like many other patients out there suffering from this disease. Although he was able to overcome this condition via a naturopathic herbal remedy administered by this African herbal physician and saved completely thus, rekindling the lost joy which had been experienced by the family members.
I wish to use this opportunity to reach across to anyone who may happen to be diagnosed with this disastrous condition to spread the hope of an everlasting herbal remedy that is capable of imposing a permanent end to this disease.
For more information concerning this naturopathic herbal remedy, feel free to contact this African herbal practitioner via email:
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