(This blog was originally posted on May 2, 2014)
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| Photo by Jennifer Berkowitz |
Have
you ever attended a really good concert? Rock, pop, country—it really doesn’t
matter what the genre happens to be—have a lot in common: The singer(s) and
other band members engage the audience through their music and banter; and the
audience, which typically comprises devoted fans wearing T-shirts or hats with
the performers’ logo, knows every lyric to every song they ever wrote.
There is always plenty of activity going on,
on-stage: musicians or back-up entertainers are dancing, lights are flashing;
there are changes of costume and/or scenery. There may also be a video screen
projecting images or scenes from a previous gig to look at and further overload
the audience with an impossible number of visual and auditory stimuli (sensory overload). By the time the band
is halfway through the first song, the audience is mesmerized and the singer(s)
have become masters of their fans’ suggestibility.
Two
years ago, my friends and I experienced one of the best and, for me, most interesting
concerts I have ever been to. (I will get to that in a minute.) I think that anybody
who has ever attended a Bon Jovi concert
would agree that this band puts on an incredibly entertaining, rocking show. They
went through a catalog of about 20 songs, practically nonstop, for two hours.
Even when lead singer Jon Bon Jovi—who is one of the most energetic and
charismatic performers I have ever seen—disappeared offstage for a couple of
minutes to drink some water and change clothes, the band rocked on loudly and
exuberantly until he popped back into the spotlight and continued to work the
audience. Most if not every other person at Staples Center that night was a
devoted fan of the band and knew all of the lyrics to their songs. All Bon Jovi
had to do was hold his microphone out at the audience and thousands of voices
would automatically sing along with him.
But by 11 p.m.
or so, the night was wearing on, and everyone’s ears were probably buzzing from
the loud noise. Exhaustion was starting to set in. After all, most of the fans
in this audience were in their late-forties or fifties, if not older. We had
been at work all day and we still faced a long drive back to wherever we lived
so we could get to bed and then get up early to start another workday, the next
morning. Meanwhile, the band was still going strong and cranking out one song
after another. Bon Jovi must have felt the reduced energy in his audience
because this is when he suddenly encouraged everyone to get up and sing and
dance with the music. “I still have a whole catalog of songs in my head to go
through!” he told us. Of course, the revelry started up again and we continued
to rock on until the concert was over.
This
was when the concert became truly interesting to me in terms of being able to
observe behavior and suggestibility.
I was fascinated to witness and impressed to actually experience the hypnotic modalities I have studied, hard at work on everyone at the Staples Center that
night. Here was a very charismatic and talented band whose lead singer was
literally telling thousands of people what to sing or say or do without really
ever having to issue a direct instruction to the audience. There was no
question that Jon Bon Jovi was running this show, because he was standing/walking/dancing
around the stage (special place or authority),
wearing either his trademark jacket emblazoned with the stars and stripes motif
or leather vest (special clothes or authority)
and singing those Billboard hit songs (special words or doctrine) or reminiscing about highlights of the band’s storied
career. Bon Jovi only had to point his microphone and those of us with
emotional suggestibility immediately got the inference: he wanted us to sing
along with him! (So we did.) Later on, when he specifically told (instructed)
his audience that he wanted us to continue to enjoy the music we obliged and
stood to sing and dance some more (physical suggestibility) until the gig was
over.
Hmm…
I wonder if I was hypnotized?
Sara R. Fogan, C.Ht. is a certified hypnotherapist based in
Southern California. She graduated with honors from the
Hypnosis Motivation Institute in 2005. For more information about
Calminsense Hypnotherapy® and to set up an appointment, please visit http://www.calminsensehypnotherapy.com/.
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