Photo courtesy of Sara Fogan
Me with Monty Roberts at the Pomona Equine Affaire in 2008
I did not remember his name the first time I heard of Monty Roberts. But I always remembered what he taught.
Let's go back about 20 years. At the time, I hadn't ridden or even spent any significant time around horses in about a decade. I was living in Southeast London, doing my post-graduate degree. But my fascination and infatuation with them was still strong enough to influence where I chose to live: My landlords--and now, friends--owned a horse; my landlady rides and competes in dressage.
On this particular night, I was curled up in an armchair, watching a documentary about a gentleman from Solvang, California. The subject of this documentary was very personable and soft-spoken. He provided background about his difficult (abusive) childhood and his subsequent work with, training and advocating for the welfare of horses. Then Mr. Roberts explained how his gentle, respectful philosophy of "Join-Up" was based on his observations of how horses naturally interact with herd members in the wild.
The program showed him do this at a riding stable--I think the event was a motivational seminar of some kind for business executives. No whips, no ropes, no harsh words. Just a man and a horse that had never been handled before. Mr. Roberts explained what he was doing the whole time, and in about 30 minutes the horse was following him around the arena. Afterward, several attendees gave emotional impressions of what they had witnessed. He admitted that people often became emotional at his seminars (some even faint); he went on to explain that witnessing or experiencing this kind of human-horse interaction was very cathartic when there was abuse or trauma in the person's past.
Then, the documentary showed him using "Join-Up" techniques to gentle the wild Mustang, Shy Boy, in the middle of a Nevada desert.
Several years ago, I had the honor of meeting Mr. Roberts and Shy Boy at Equine Affaire in Pomona, California. By then, a friend at my barn had re-introduced me to his work. I only had to read a few pages of The Man Who Listens to Horses to realize that this was the man featured in that documentary I still remembered watching when I lived in London. I still feel the hairs on my neck prickle when I think about how his interactions with horses bring people to tears, and a wild Mustang colt to trust him implicitly.
And then I heard him introduce/describe each of the horses in his demonstration as "equine students"...and I was blown away.
Sara R. Fogan, C.Ht. is a certified hypnotherapist based in Southern California. She graduated with honors from the Hypnosis Motivation Institute in 2005. For more information about Calminsense Hypnotherapy®, please visit http://www.calminsensehypnotherapy.com/.
