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When dealing with a high-level Physical-Sexual female (80- to 85-percent
Physical), this person is likely manifesting neurotic behavior in the
relationship, said Hypnosis Motivation
Institute founder John Kappas, Ph.D. Consequently, the goal of the hypnotherapy is to
lower her physical-sexual traits and help her develop self-confidence and
strength so she can function more normally. To do this, the hypnotherapist
should explain to the client the basic traits of her Physical
Sexual personality and help her understand her behavior (jealousy,
suspicion) and where it came from, Dr. Kappas explained.
To bring down extreme levels of Physical Sexuality, the hypnotherapist
must focus on and develop in the client those traits or behaviors that she
lacks. To do this, the hypnotherapist helps her bring out the logic and
reasoning faculties of the conscious mind so the individual can tolerate
frustration and not overreact in a stressful situation. Hysteria and tendency
to make demands—a default behavior when a Physical Sexual female becomes
jealous or feels threatened—will only make the situation worse, the
hypnotherapist said.
A high-Physical Sexual female who has just lost a relationship is likely
to be hysterical about the break-up, he continued. If she has been rejected in
the relationship, she is also likely to run toward
the partner. Therefore, the first step in the therapeutic process to help this
client deal with this loss is to give her hope that the relationship can be saved if she makes simple changes
in her behavior. “Once her boyfriend [or spouse] sees there’s a change in her
and that she’s like what he was first attracted to, his [Emotional]
sexuality will come down and they may be able to re-negotiate the relationship.”
To accomplish this, the hypnotherapist should first desensitize the
client to these high levels of frustration from the highest level, a 10, all the way down to the lowest, a 1. When she is in hypnosis, the client
should hold this negative emotion at the lowest level while the hypnotherapist has
her face the situations that cause the greatest anxiety. This exercise
reinforces the double-bind
therapeutic concept, whereby it is impossible to feel maximum levels of
stress while experiencing extreme levels of comfort and relaxation she is
experiencing in hypnosis. “Instead of being upset, she’s backing down being
very comfortable with it. Focus on the behaviors [that she] lacks,” Dr. Kappas
advised.
Sara R. Fogan, C.Ht. is a certified
hypnotherapist based in Southern California. She graduated with honors
from the Hypnosis Motivation
Institute in 2005. For more
information about Calminsense Hypnotherapy® and to set up an
appointment, please visit http://www.calminsensehypnotherapy.com/.
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