Proprioception

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When I count a client up and out of hypnosis at the end of the hypnotherapy session, I always drop in a suggestion that the individual begins to become more aware of his or her physical body. I add that the person is also becoming more aware of where the body is in relation to relaxing in the recliner in my office. I do this to re-stimulate the person’s proprioception: i.e., awareness of the different areas of the physical body and strength in relation to movement and position in the environment in the alert and aware state.

Proprioception is something most of us take for granted on a day-to-day basis. Remember, the conscious mind can only process a small amount of information at any one time. The ability to discern important (urgent) information is necessary for our survival, which is why so much of what the subconscious mind perceives and processes “rarely” makes it to conscious awareness. Can you imagine what your day would be like if you constantly felt the scratching sensation caused by the label stitched inside the collar of your shirt or blouse? How long would it take for you to become overwhelmed by the persistent sensation of each muscle in your legs constrict and relax while you walked across the room?

Consequently, we don’t think about how our muscles, tendons, joints and bones work let alone what they are supposed to do when we first roll out of bed or run to catch a bus or train. We just do the activity and expect that everything in the body is working/doing what it is supposed to. When we feel threatened by something in the environment or even the environment, itself, we become very aware of every muscle in the body. As the subconscious mind goes into the fight/flight data processing, the conscious mind wonders: How fast can I get out of here if I need to escape?

 

Another time we become much more aware and attuned to what is going on is when things don’t work like they should, such as after an injury or during an illness. For example, people who experience chronic pain are often hyper-alert to every sensation in the body as they try to find some position that provides some relief, if only for a little while.

Athletes, including dancers, naturally tend have very good proprioception. Or, I should clarify that this “natural” ability is a learned, oft-rehearsed behavior that has become a subconscious mental script. These individuals must have this to successfully execute their special skill in the sport to achieve the winning goal or point or, ensure that their movements seem effortless as their and their dance partner’s bodies flow with choreography. No matter what is going on, these individuals remain consciously and subconsciously aware of/attuned to the placement of the body and what it is and should be doing at all times. 

When my yoga teacher started to explained proprioception to the class today, instructing us to pay greater attention to specific areas of our bodies, she reminded me how similar this physical work is to what I help clients do in hypnotherapy. She wanted us (the students) to increase our awareness of how these separate parts worked together (or not) by noticing if there was any resistance in certain areas and then ease that tension by breathing into it. She also suggested that it was okay to allow ourselves to release or let go of anything we felt was holding us back or what we no longer wanted or needed to hold onto in our lives. This exercise reminded me so much of what I do with my hypnotherapy clients: i.e., inviting the breath into the body to release tightness and tension while increasing their relaxation, calm and comfort. Like yoga, hypnotherapy is an opportunity to increase self-awareness and make desired behavior changes starting with something as simple breathing in and breathing out. Directing awareness to what we are able to do to increase comfort within and control of the entire body or just specific areas is a great way to build self-confidence and belief in our ability to handle other areas of our lives.

Sara R. Fogan, C.Ht. is a certified hypnotherapist based in Southern California. She graduated with honors from the Hypnosis Motivation Institute in 2005. For more information about Calminsense Hypnotherapy® and to set up an appointment, please visit http://www.calminsensehypnotherapy.com/.

© 2016

Dealing With a Disappointment

(This blog was originally posted on March 2, 2014)

            At some time in our lives, each of us experiences a disappointment. It hurts; it can even make us angry, because that thing or person or event that you wanted or expected to happen, falls through. Perhaps you did not make the football team or cheer-leading squad this year. Your “dream” college rejected your application. The love of your life and the person you believed to be your future spouse turned out to be just a summer romance. You were one of the few Academy Award nominees on your award-winning movie who did not receive an Oscar. How did you handle this disappointment? What did you do?

             Since you were born, your subconscious mind has learned and knows only two kinds of responses: pleasure and pain. In the context of the examples above, when you get what you want (or worked or wished for), you may experience pleasure. When you don’t get these things, you may experience pain in the form of disappointment. This pain may feel, be or seem exponential if you have experienced similar disappointments in the past. After all, if this kind of thing has happened before, your subconscious mind must know how to “do” this, right? Or, what if your subconscious mind just takes this message unit (e.g., failure at, disappointment at) and stockpiles it as a “known” for the next time you’re in a similar situation?

Everything you had and then lost—or almost had and then lost—last night, last week, last month, last year felt like the worst of the worst kind of pain you have ever experienced. But, you got through that pain (somehow) and went on to triumph in another way, on another day, right? You must have, because you are reading this blog right now. You will get up again tomorrow morning, too, and start over again, because that is what your subconscious mind also knows how to do. Your subconscious mind works, wants and loves to please you. This is true even when it seems like your SCM is hanging onto memories of this pain and repeating your negative, mental chatter as if to sabotage next time’s chance for you, too.

            Hypnotherapy and therapeutic guided imagery are great ways with which to deal with a disappointment, because both tools give you direct access to the area where the emotional reaction to that experience has occurred—your subconscious mind. During hypnosis and guided imagery, you can explore alternative scenarios to what happened and other ways you could have responded in this situation, including possible benefits to not have realized this particular dream. (For more information on this topic, check out my blog titled “Turn it Around.”) While you are in this relaxed state, you can also learn a new response to disappointment: replace the old response (e.g., hurt, anger, sadness) it with “X” (a positive, optimistic, etc. emotion of your choosing) for having an opportunity to experience “Y.” Then, anchor the new emotion to the sensation of feeling relaxed, comfortable, etc. that you experienced in hypnosis or during your guided-imagery journey, so the next time your wish for today didn’t come true, you can feel relaxed and positive about still being in the game for next time.

Sara R. Fogan, C.Ht. is a certified hypnotherapist based in Southern California. She graduated with honors from the Hypnosis Motivation Institute in 2005. For more information about Calminsense Hypnotherapy® and to set up an appointment, please visit http://www.calminsensehypnotherapy.com/.

© 2015

Data Management

 

(This blog was originally posted on February 24, 2014)

 

 

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                No matter what you do, even if you don’t try, you learn something new every day. The question is: What will you do with this new information that you have just learned?

                For example, imagine that your car’s gas gauge is almost on empty, so you pull into a gas station to fill up your tank. You notice that the cost of unleaded gas is up four cents from last week’s listed price, which triggers a familiar (known) emotional response of anger/frustration and even anxiety about the cost of fuel. What you do about or with this information will depend on how badly you need the fuel right now and whether it is/will be available when you are ready to make the purchase. Your actions will also be influenced on how you have handled similar situations in the past: Just fill up the tank and resolve this inconvenience, buy just enough gasoline to keep you on the road for a few more days, or drive around to look for a better price at a different station.

                Your subconscious mind likely knew exactly what you would do before you made the conscious decision to just fill up the tank. Even though your first instinct would normally be to look around for a better (cheaper) price, you decide to just buy the gas right now. Southern California is in the middle of a heat-wave, the Labor Day traffic is likely to be heavy today as people are returning home after their long weekend. You don’t want to risk getting stuck on the road in 100-plus degree temperatures. Also, if a lot of other nervous drivers have the same idea, you might have to drive around forever looking for a station that has a better price, but it could already be sold out of gas before you get there. Even though you are still annoyed that you had to spend so much more money to buy the fuel than if you had shopped around a bit more, you are relieved that the tank is full, and you no longer have to worry about getting stuck in bad weather.

Remember: Every sensation you perceive provides a catalog of information about your environment and how/where/why you fit into that situation. The conscious mind identifies this data (stimuli) as a “known” or “unknown” message unit; the subconscious mind is more likely to accept or reject the information/behavior if it is already in your repertoire of knowns—and you will act accordingly. Furthermore, no matter what you do, you will be creating a new and/or reinforcing a previous known behavior in your repertoire.

 

Sara R. Fogan, C.Ht. is a certified hypnotherapist based in Southern California. She graduated with honors from the Hypnosis Motivation Institute in 2005. For more information about Calminsense Hypnotherapy® and to set up an appointment, please visit http://www.calminsensehypnotherapy.com/.

© 2014

Intuition

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                I believe that intuition is one of the most valuable perceptions that people have. It isn’t about mind-reading or fortune-telling per se, although some people do possess this gift. I am talking about a skill that I consider practical intuition. It manifests itself as that gut instinct or a little voice in our mind that tells us to do something or go somewhere (or not). It is that urge or behavior that we cannot logically explain or identify its origin, but benefits us when we follow this inexplicable instruction.

        According to Hypnosis Motivation Institute founder John Kappas, Ph.D.’s Theory of Mind, at birth humans know only two responses: a reaction to the fear of falling and a reaction to the fear of loud noises. Every other belief and behavior is learned through identifying a stimulus (e.g., smell, sound, taste, sight, touch) and associating it with a positive or negative response or experience (knowns). In turn, these associations create our life script (mental script), and we continue to behave in ways which we have learned “work” to help us accomplish a particular goal. It is not practical or efficient for our brains to actively process and respond to each of the millions of pieces of data (message units). Therefore, once the critical area of the mind identifies this random data as a known in the SCM, we can ignore the stimulus and go on our way. This is where and how I believe our practical intuition kicks in.

Consider, again, the fear of falling and fear of loud noises that we are born with. Generally speaking, falling can be lethal to humans and other animals. Similarly, a loud noise is often associated with real or perceived danger, such as the crack of thunder during an electric storm. Thunder is loud and it can definitely be very scary, which is good, because it generally sends us looking for shelter from a lightning strike that can injure or kill. Now imagine the infinitesimal quantity of information that your subconscious mind perceives and associate with the incoming storm. When the SCM identifies message units that it associates with these primitive fears, the metaphoric alarm bells will be going off in your mind to warn and protect you of possible danger.

Neuro-scientists contend that the human brain perceives and processes so much data that most people have no idea how much they really know or are capable of. (The potential deleterious effect of this unharnessed power is the concept behind Lucy, a new movie starring Scarlett Johannson.) What if our powers of intuition come from our subconscious ability to interpret those millions pieces of miniscule sensory data, identify this information and behave in a way that will is most likely to benefit our well-being? I believe that each one of us is naturally able to intuit a likely outcome to a situation or problem, positive or negative. Unfortunately, that niggling voice of self-doubt and lack of trust in our inexplicable insight keeps getting in the way.

 

 

 Sara R. Fogan, C.Ht. is a certified hypnotherapist based in Southern California. She graduated with honors from the Hypnosis Motivation Institute in 2005. For more information about Calminsense Hypnotherapy®, please visit http://www.calminsensehypnotherapy.com/.

Data Management

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Every decision you make and every action you take
creates or reinforces a “known” response in your subconscious mind.

 

                No matter what you do, even if you don’t try, you learn something new every day. The question is: What will you do with this new information that you have just learned?

                For example, imagine that your car’s gas gauge is almost on empty, so you pull into a gas station to fill up your tank. You notice that the cost of unleaded gas is up four cents from last week’s listed price, which triggers a familiar (known) emotional response of anger/frustration and even anxiety about the cost of fuel. What you do about or with this information will depend on how badly you need the fuel right now and whether it is/will be available when you are ready to make the purchase. Your actions will also be influenced on how you have handled similar situations in the past: Just fill up the tank and resolve this inconvenience, buy just enough gasoline to keep you on the road for a few more days, or drive around to look for a better price at a different station.

                Your subconscious mind likely knew exactly what you would do before you made the conscious decision to just fill up the tank. Even though your first instinct would normally be to look around for a better (cheaper) price, you decide to just buy the gas right now. A big storm is coming, and you don’t want to risk getting stuck on the road in bad weather. Also, if a lot of other nervous drivers have the same idea, you might have to drive around forever looking for a station that has a better price, but it could already be sold out of gas before you get there. Even though you are still annoyed that you had to spend so much more money to buy the fuel than if you had shopped around a bit more, you are relieved that the tank is full, and you no longer have to worry about getting stuck in bad weather.

Remember: Every sensation you perceive provides a catalog of information about your environment and how/where/why you fit into that situation. The conscious mind identifies this data (stimuli) as a “known” or “unknown” message unit; the subconscious mind is more likely to accept or reject the information/behavior if it is already in your repertoire of knowns—and you will act accordingly. Furthermore, no matter what you do, you will be creating a new and/or reinforcing a previous known behavior in your repertoire for next time.

 

Sara R. Fogan, C.Ht. is a certified hypnotherapist based in Southern California. She graduated with honors from the Hypnosis Motivation Institute in 2005. For more information about Calminsense Hypnotherapy® and to set up an appointment, please visit http://www.calminsensehypnotherapy.com/.

© 2014