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“Cubical release” refers to the volume of sperm a man releases in an
ejaculation. According to John Kappas,
Ph.D., there is a significant difference between the amount of sperm that a
Physical
Sexual male versus an Emotional
Sexual male release during sex (penetration or masturbation).
According to the Hypnosis Motivation Institute founder, a Physical
Sexual man wants to dominate his (female) partner and prove he is her best
lover. By releasing one cubical of sperm in each ejaculation he can have as
many as four releases in the duration of an encounter. This individual often
represses his orgasm to increase the intensity of the experience and to work to
pleasure his partner. However, repressing an ejaculation this way can increase
the man’s risk of prostate trouble later in life.
Conversely, an Emotional Sexual man has tone goal in sex: to achieve
orgasm. Whether he masturbates or has intercourse, he will release three cubicals
of sperm in one ejaculation and is generally “done” with sex for the night
after that. He may be able to have 1 ½ ejaculations before needing recovery
time. However, the Emotional Sexual male risks having a “dry” release as a
consequence of repeated sex if he does not control the amount of sperm released
in each ejaculation. An exception would be if the relationship is new or if it
is in the honeymoon
stage, during which he is generally more amenable to and interested in
sexual congress.
Cubical release is tied into the stages
of development in terms of what the man was taught about masturbation and
sex as he was growing up and his early/previous sexual experiences. For
example, his first sexual experience as a teenager may be highlighted by the
need to rush to ejaculate quickly, before his parents came home unexpectedly
and he got caught having sex with his girlfriend. Or, if a man’s partner was
not responsive to his sexual overtures he may subconsciously inhibit his sexual
desire or ejaculatory response (e.g., the three-day cycle for sexual
receptivity or Emotional and Physical incompatibilities). Cultural taboos about
intercourse or masturbation may also affect a man’s sexual desire, behavior
and/or ability to ejaculate in some situations.
However, during hypnosis the hypnotherapist can use suggestions to
replace the negative associations about sex, ejaculation or orgasm that the man
or his partner may have that also contribute to the sexual dysfunction. The
hypnotherapist can also explain techniques for the couple to incorporate in
their sexual repertoire, including oral sex and changing positions to control
the cubical release and thus increase a man’s ability to have intercourse.
Sara R. Fogan, C.Ht. is a certified
hypnotherapist based in Southern California. She graduated with honors
from the Hypnosis Motivation
Institute in 2005. For more
information about Calminsense Hypnotherapy® and to set up an
appointment, please visit http://www.calminsensehypnotherapy.com/.
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